CYBERBULLYING

=Cyberbullying=



**__Cyberbullying__**
With new technologies appearing everyday, cyberbullying can become a new way for your child to be harassed. I have provided some information about what cyberbullying is and how you can recognize the signs of cyberbullying. I have also included some ways to prevent this from happening as well as advice on how to help a victim of cyberbullying.

__Signs of Cyberbullying__
There are a myriad of signs that a child is experiencing cyberbullying. The following is a list of some of the signs that may be associated with a child who is being cyberbullied.
 * long hours on the computer
 * always doing "homework" on the computer but grades are falling at school
 * secretive about Internet usage
 * closes windows on the computer when you enter the room
 * won't say who he/she is talking to
 * behavioral changes
 * headaches and/or stomachaches
 * loss of appetite
 * lack of interest in social events that include other students

If you feel that your child exhibits any of these signs, please remember that it is NOT about what your child has done wrong; it is about what the cyberbully has done. Be sure not to blame your child; investigate what is happening so that you can help your child.

How can I prevent my child from experiencing cyberbullying? Let's look at some prevention suggestions.



__**Ways to Prevent Cyberbullying**__ As a parent, you want to protect your child from being hurt. In today's technologically advanced society, one must be even more in tune with what your child is doing on the Internet. Here is a list of ways that you can help prevent your child from experiencing cyberbullying.
 * monitor technology usage, cell phones included
 * know your child's username and password
 * encourage your child to keep his/her password private; don't tell friends
 * become a "friend" on your child's MySpace or other social networks
 * listen to your child if he/she has a problem
 * report the problem to the school or the police if necessary

If your child is the victim of cyberbullying, here are a few suggestions of how to handle the situation.
 * do not reply to any message that is negative; this includes email, instant messages, and texts
 * do not delete or erase messages from the cyberbully
 * immediately tell an adult; this could be a parent, teacher, counselor, or administrator
 * contact the police if necessary
 * never contact or give information to the cyberbully

What advice can I follow to help my child with cyberbullying?

__**Advice for Parents and Teachers**__ There are several ways that you can help your child with cyberbullying.
 * Model kindness in all situations
 * Tell your children how you feel about them and their behavior
 * Praise your child for using kindness
 * Use computers in family places in the home
 * Listen to your child if he/she has a problem; be sure to respond to them and not react.

If your child is the bully, talk to teachers, counselors, or administrators. Consulting a trusted family physician is also recommended. If necessary, find a psychiatrist for a complete evaluation.